While Tatum has always been a full blown diva, I think Tess may just be a princess. Yes, she prefers to be held, but she will at least tolerate the swing, swaddling, and the carseat. Tatum is still loving her little sis. She's a big helper when Tess is fussing. She tells me, "She is calm with me." Yeah, I see your secret, Tate. The old thumb in the mouth trick.